The silent influence in parental conduct

The silent influence in parental conduct

(J.A. James, “The Christian Professor” 1837)

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Parents have a great power of influenceover the minds and hearts of their children. Their children are almost continually with them–they are seen by them in nearly all they do, in their habitual conduct, and character at home. They are . . .
  heardin what they say;
  seenin what they do;
  studiedin all their behavior;
by little ears, and eyes and minds, which are scarcely ever closed!

The child’s heart is soft and pliable to a father’s or a mother’s influence. Their constant influence has been molding him from the dawn of reason. What, then, ought to be the parents’ behavior at home? The whole cultivation, and direction, and management of a child’s mind, from the very dawn of reason, should be carried on with special reference to the formation of Christian character. This should be the one thing, to which all other things should be subordination.

The silent influence in parental conduct is far greater, either for good or for evil, than most parents are aware of. They teach by what they say, they influence by what they do; and also by what they do not say, and do not perform.

The pious parents, who embody a meek, benevolent, ardent and consistent godliness in their character, exert a tremendous influence over the minds of their children!

But oh! the dreadful contrast in the case of those parents who are characterized by . . .
  ungodly dispositions,
  worldly associations,
  mirthful and extravagant living,
  trifling conversation, and
  lack of all seriousness and spirituality.

Oh! what can be expected from such parents–but children who regard their religion with disgust?

Every man is best known at home.Parents are ever doing something to prejudice their children in favor of true religion–or to prejudice them against it; doing something to draw them into the church–or to drive them into the world; lending a helping hand to lead then to heaven–or taking them by the hand and leading them to Hell.

Parents! Must you employ your influence in ruining the souls of your children–and sending them to perdition? Oh! tremble at the interview you must have with them at the day of judgment, and the dialog you must hold with them forever in the bottomless pit!!

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